You may think from the title that the goat sacrifice is some cruel shit that we do in the east side of the world. Well… you are correct. But, it is same as beheading an animal but, with God’s permission. (Halal way in Hinduism)
Why on Earth do you do this shit?
It is a tradition I believe. In India, each family/community have their own deity. No wonder Hinduism has millions of Gods. For the last 6 to 7 centuries, our people would invite all their friends and relatives for a mega feast. They would have this occasion when a baby is born, when someone gets married or when someone dies. They would then sacrifice a number of goats depending on the numbers of invitees. This beheading would happen in front of the temple of the God to which the sacrifice is dedicated to. I guess this is more like get-to-gether but, in a very barbaric manner.
Day 5:
Since I went to bed very late previous night, I was the last one to get up. Apparently, I wasn’t the only to get up late. Nearly everyone apart from my Grandma had a very late wake up. My grandma is an early bird. She looked pissed because we are already 5 hours late to the goat sacrifice. But, she couldn’t say anything to her son because my aunt is there too. It would be embarassing for him if my grandma scolded her son in front of her wife.
Then, we all got ready. But, there was only one seven seater to carry 10 of us. My grandma refused to get another taxi. She thought we would all fit in to seven seater. She didn’t wanna book a taxi because it would double up the travel expenses. She is a cheapskate. She got shouted by everyone. She cried. Two people I hate to see cry. My mom. Then, it’s my grandma. But, again, she is ambitious and we all somehow fit into this 7 seater. 😀 My mum sitting on my lap.
We reach there really late. My mom’s birthplace. She was born in a mudhouse. Now, the mudhouse has changed to a pile of mud I guess. Opposite to it lays the only house my grandpa built before he died. He was a police officer. I’m his first grandson. He would have been happy and proud if he knew I’m doing well in my life. I always think he is beside me even thought I haven’t even had a sight of him. Love you grandpa. Up till the age of 14, I thought he died in an accident. Later, I got to know that he was murdered by goons. I don’t want to get too much detail into this. But, long story short, what he did was pretty heroic.
Anyways, this house is where all of family antiques are. Our family history ain’t that great. It is pretty boring. We all belong to the farmer’s family. Nearly all my ancestors did nothing but, farming. As the time went on, they did jobs related to food like restaurants and owning rice mills. But, my very own great-great-great grandfather went to Burma around 1800s to work in Harbour so, he could provide some money to his starving family which included my great grandfather. Not only he did what his boss ordered(which was working in the harbour), I heard from an elderly that he also used collect these glass bottles from the sea and sell them to make some extra cents. Salute to you. G-G-G Grandpa. We still have the suitcase that he carried to Burma. It is in a very bad state.
Then, we went to the feast. By the time we went to have food, the entire village had finished their meals. We had very little left. Still I was very full. Fresh Meat cut. Cooked and served straight to your banana leaves. Imaging the taste. 🙂 Then, it was selfie time. I HATE SELFIES! >_<
Then, I got closer with my little cousin. I love playing like a kid with a kid. It just takes me back to the time that I dearly miss. Why did I grow up?
Back to the Madurai. It was my Mum’s birthday. We’ve never cut for my mom’s birthday. She is too shy and she never gives us money to buy her a cake for her birthday. But, my uncle surprisingly brought a cake while we were having food. It was quite awkward. Worst out-of-sync birthday song was sung to her. She was very happy. I’m not going to fail to send her a cake for next birthday.
Again, too busy. So, no urges.